So big girls homework tonight, after a whole 6 days in high school is ‘draw a time line of your life from birth to now including any special events’.
So here is a timeline of an adopted child (I’m making it up so you get the idea of why this homework was so inappropriate). I wonder how they’d feel if this was what she handed in.
Born in 2004 I had to stay in hospital for a while because I was addicted to heroin the nurse that cared for me was called Mary.
Christmas 2004 I was hungry and left to cry for 8 hours in my car seat whilst my parents got drunk and smoked weed.
Jan 2005 The police came to my house because me and my siblings had been left home alone.
May 2005 I was abused by my moms friend, he said it was a secret but I think its ok to tell now.
Christmas 2005 my dad hit my mom until she was unconscious and we spent the night in hospital, the nurses were kind and fed us, I had coco pops.
March 2006 the social worker visited and found me and my siblings wearing dirty clothes and dirty nappies. Mom was asleep upstairs drunk, Dad was out.
November 2006 was the first time my dads friend showed me porn on the tv.
June 2007 my dad was sent to jail for stabbing my grandad, my grandad died.
Feb 2008 my mom tried to kill herself by cutting her wrists. There was a lot of blood. My older sister called an ambulance. At the hospital I had a cheese sandwich.
March 2008 my baby sister was born, she had to stay in hospital for a while because she was poorly and kept crying.
July 2008 I had to go to hospital with a broken arm, my mom told the doctor I fell, but I didn’t.
November 2008 the social workers and the police came to my house and took me and all my siblings to another house and said we had to live there. My mom didn’t come with us and I forgot to get my purple teddy.
June 2009 the social worker told me I’ll be having a new family.
November 2009 my baby sister went to live with a new family, the social worker said I’ll never see her again.
Feb 2010 I went to live with a new family, my brothers and sisters didn’t come with me, the social worker says they’re too old to have a new family and I’ll never see them again.
September 2010 I started at my new school, it smelt funny
March 2012 is the last time my birth mom wrote me a letter, it was on flowery paper and smelt of her
Feb 2013 my birth mom killed herself, they told me she took some pills
April 2014 I got a letter to say my older sister hanged herself because she was so sad
September 2015 I started high school
I don’t think I really need to say any more about this do I.
I urge you to share this fictional timeline post far and wide, spread the word, lets educate our educators.
I’ve linked this up with #WASO over at The Adoption Social where you can read lots of new great adoption blogs.