Its that time of year, the time when we need to write letters to the girls birth family.
Usually I’ve written them by now, I tend to do them half term week as its generally a less stressful week for the girls than a school week and often can bring up some difficult feelings and thoughts for the girls.
This half term has been so CRAZY that I haven’t had time to stop and think, never mind write a letter.
But now that half terms over I thought I’d better at least put some thought in to it.
What to write? I’m running out of positive stories to tell and fabulous achievements to share.
Apparently I’m supposed to be sensitive to birth mum’s feelings when considering what to write, so I cant tell her how many times baby girl told me she loves me today, but I also cant tell her of big girls emotional struggles and middle girls inability to trust us still.
So what can I write about!?
My rose tinted glasses are broke.
I’ve linked this blog with #WASO over at The Adoption Social.